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9.27.2004
Just because I think a certain red haired waitress is the prettiest thing I've seen in a long long time does not mean I want to go out with her. Why would I say this? Well, good looking people think differently about relationships. It comes from the knowledge that there is always someone else waiting in the wings to pick you up should the current relationship ever fall apart. I have a friend, BC, an above average looking guy. His problem is that he always wants to date the hottest chicks. His other problem is that they always cheat on him. I say the two are related. He's an insanely "nice" guy, meaning he's a doormat to any girl that is willing to take advantage of him. Its hard to respect someone that you can walk all over. No respect... no love, no faithfulness. Its not that there is anything intrinsically better about good looking people. Its just that in the marketplace of sex they have what we are all looking for. That can work to their disadavntage when it comes to learning how to nurture a relationship. Its easier to just give up when things get rocky and hitch a ride with the next hot person who comes along. A guy like myself counts his lucky stars when he gets into a good relationship. Therefore, I'm gonna put a little effort into working through the rough spots because it may be a while before I get another chance. I can be understanding and forgiving of a person's flaws because, well, I have them too. I don't see myself as perfect and I don't expect other people to be perfect either. Does this mean that me and the hot waitress are incompatible? Well, maybe, maybe not. I don't know. We're talking in generalities here anyways. I've met some really amazing girls that were blessed with looks and a great personality. It made me want to gnaw my own leg off in frustration. But its usually the more plain, average girls that I find attractive in terms of personality. I know its a horrible thing to admit but I just ignore the really hot girls and instead pay more attention to the average ones. There's nothing wrong with average. Some guys don't like short girls with small boobs. I don't mind at all. They're kinda cute if you ask me. Girls with glasses? Sexy. Shy, quiet girls? I like. Besides, it seems like the really hot girls aren't just looking for a nice guy, they're looking for a lifestyle, complete with world travel, fancy restaraunts, big houses and expensive gifts. Its as if they expect to cash in on their assets. |
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