"So many men have told me that they are fundamentally 'good guys,' but that women just don't seem to want someone that pursues them. And then we women, after chasing those bad boys, mope after they screw us over--claiming we could be satisfied if we could only find a good man . . . Ah the games, and to further muddy the waters, we have the complicated issues relating to the delicate balance of power between two people who find themselves physically attracted to each other. And then came the freaking internet."