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4.21.2004
Will you take this man... ? As you get older and older you become more set in your ways. You become individualized. You have routines, you do things a certain way. Not just anyone would understand why its VITAL that you avoid left turns and make entire blocks instead or why you don't like spending too much time in crowded spaces. When you think about starting a relationship you not only have to ask another person to accept who you are but also all the decisions you've made. Its easy to live with your own decisions, its harder to live with another person's decisions. Some people call this baggage. I don't like that term for what I'm talking about. I'm talking about life choices. Maybe after high school you decided to join a band and travel around the country in a buss instead of going off to college and cultivating your accounting skills. Maybe you decided to have your entire left leg tattooed with Celtic symbols in a grand romantic gesture for some girl that was half-Irish. You look in the mirror, remember those things, laugh and go about your day. So what happens when you meet the girl of your dreams and she hates tattoos or rock music? Is it fair to ask someone to give up their fantasy of a posh little suburban life as you complete your life's work of creating the ultimate Hogan's Heros fansite? well, is it? | |
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